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SWEET
TANTRA
This
technique is very simple and involves practicing penetration without
an erection in the position I already talked to you about: the scissors
or cat position and even the upside-down cat position, that is with
the girl on top.
You
have practically nothing to worry about. It's not necessary that
you have an erection. This is the big difference from the traditional
way of making love. You can or not have an erection. It deals with
waiting passively, together, connected with your partner. After
31 minutes a physiological reaction takes places, which has been
measured with little electroencephalogram-type machines. The brain
waves of the two lovers, just after 31 minutes, begin to go at the
same rhythm becoming the same.
This cerebral syntonization is physically felt. Do you know what
it means to have a good feeling? That's it, something similar. Obviously,
it's a way of making love that requires the lovers to have mutually
strong emotions. It's not the sort of sexual relationship that you
can have with a prostitute.
It may have happened to you to make great love with someone, but
to have no real communion with that person. This phenomenon of the
homogenization of the brain waves instead makes you actually feel
a diffused sensation of pleasure, not only in the genital area.
It's not an orgasm, but it is nevertheless a great pleasure, the
pleasure of hugging. You have what has been called a peak-experience
orgasm.
It is different from the usual orgasm, explosive, with ejaculation.
It is a softer orgasm, but much more deeply satisfying. You feel
goose bumps all over your body. A simple caress becomes a great
deal more pleasurable. There is a warm sensation that spreads, and
above all, an ecstatic state of communion with the other person.
There is complete union, the complete inter-penetration of the two
lovers. It is a less acute sensation than the typical orgasm, but
more powerful, because you can remain in this state of ecstasy even
for an hour without getting tired, as you are not doing anything.
It's not about completing a performance or making a physical effort.
Rather, it is relaxing. If a tired person reaches it, he recharges
his energy. I know that men will think that my brain has turned
to mush. It's exactly what I thought when they talked to me of sweet
Tantra for the first time.
On the contrary, women can understand me because you can make love
with a girl and, when you ask her how it went, she answers: "I
didn't have an orgasm, but I enjoyed it just the same, and I'm satisfied".
We males immediately think that she says it only out of politeness
and pity, and as soon as we leave, she calls the plumber, who is
never one to hesitate! And instead no... women happen to experience
a state similar to that of Tantric ecstasy precisely because they
have less the sense of competition, of sexual performance, and therefore
are more relaxed than males.
Obviously, you are not obliged to stop once you've had a peak-experience
orgasm. After having experienced Tantric ecstasy for 10 minutes
or an hour, you can also end sex with a normal orgasm, providing
you move a bit. At this point, however, it won't be the usual orgasm,
but something much more powerful. In fact, thanks to muscular and
mental relaxation that sweet Tantra involves, you will be in the
best condition to better listen to the ecstasy of orgasmic pleasure.
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